Narcissist or twinflame?

Twinflames are advanced, high vibrational souls. They awaken the kundalini within each other and continue to share divine, ascension energy. This powerful, healing energy pulses through their bodies and they have instant access to the 5th dimension. When twinflame energies are compromised either by others negativity, their surroundings or by their own lack thinking, twins go into physical separation but the astral union continues. The physical separation is an illusion and It will most likely feel worse than death until they learn to balance their energies within.

Not one of a twinflame set is a narcissist. Narcissists are souls who lack their connection to source.

The twinflame connection is so pure and should not be compared to a low grade obsessive, dysfunctional attachment.

When people express their negative thoughts or beliefs about twinflames, you know it’s not coming from god, right?

The problem with so many people jumping on the twinflame label is that there is so much misinformation and true twinflames can and do get delayed because of that negative, darker energies affecting the higher conscious energy, until they learn to ground. I guess the good thing is the more a person holding a higher conscious connection is triggered, the more it helps them to decipher what’s true for them.

If you want to know if something you’ve heard is coming from the soul, listen to the sound of their voice or feel the energy of their written words. How does it make you feel? You can sense a purity in someone’s tones and energy. Does it make you feel uplifted? You can feel their soul in their words. You can see if they are soul aligned or even embodying their higher self by looking at them.

You can also tell when someone is sharing relayed information rather than what they’ve got from connecting within. Off course often information can resonate and confirm what we already know but when it’s coming from someone who have yet to discover their authenticity, It’s flippant and flaky.

I honestly feel that people who are not in a twinflame connection should stay away from sharing knowledge of this journey because it negatively impacts the collective. I am also aware that some true twinflames go into their egos at times and publicly rip down the divine connection. I recommend not doing this publicly because it also affects the collective negatively. What I knew from being soul aligned is nothing compared to the downloads I received while embodying my higher self. In fact I never felt the soul urge to write about this connection until I was aligned with my higher self. I received these downloads and I get this knowing about the twinflame journey because I’m suppose to know for my purpose. If I don’t need to know or I don’t feel a soul desire to know, I don’t receive a download.

What to do

If you are wondering if it’s a higher love connection or a narcissistic/lower attachment then I recommend focusing on yourself to get your vibration into the abundance energy. Embody your higher self and you will harmonise your union if it’s your destined love. If it’s not your destined higher love connection, problems will arise because your vibrations will no longer match with each other. It’s not possible to be aligned with your higher self while your twin is not because you and your twin are one.

No matter who you are and what you are dealing with, if you are someone that is triggered by outside influence a little too much then connect within by daily meditation and grounding. Do it religiously like brushing your teeth. I use to say I couldn’t do it but how wrong was I? When it became my last resort, I did it.

Discover your authenticity so that when you are met with doubt, fear or judgment from others, you are strong in yourself and your knowing.

With so much love

Amanda

For more on how to align with your soul you can book a session with me please contact me here or you can download The Twinflame worksheet or my twinflame audio.

Suicidal on the twinflame journey?

At least once in a twinflame connection if you’ve experienced separation consciousness, you may have experienced suicidal feelings or thoughts. Both twins have experienced this at some point.

A twinflame union is not just about the other person and it’s not a normal soulmate connection. It is not like any old relationship you can throw away when it gets tough because this is your destiny. You and your twin hold divine energies in unison, you are here to ascend and fulfil a life purpose together. It’s why you came here and when inner union aligns, you align with your core self and vice versa.

So what happens when you’ve experienced trauma on your twinflame journey or when you’ve built up mental or emotional blocks to your destiny: you lose faith in your physical union but the problem is this also blocks your inner union.

Because your life purpose and soul alignment is linked to your inner union, losing faith in your outer union not only blocks your core alignment, it’s blocks your life purpose and It’s blocks your lively essence. It blocks everything that you are.

You whole life was leading to your ascension with you twinflame so when you unconsciously give up on your destiny, your life will feel like it has lost meaning.

Even if you have children to take care of, your soul will be in devastation.

At times like this I’ve experienced something called soul shock and everything around me fell apart so quickly. This soul loss can manifest in many different ways, it may even be a mild apathy.

First I want to remind you that what you are feeling right now, will pass by tomorrow because emotions fluctuate. So don’t make any definite decisions.

You are always supported and guided onto the right path, your journey is supported by the universe. There are angels around you all the time trying to guide you. So take a break but don’t give up.

You’re really precious and beautiful no matter what your reality is showing you. You are deeply loved so much and this is the only truth.

Your twinflame was brought to you, to come into whole spiritual and physical union with you. This is not a trick. The only tricksters are the entities and people trying to convince you to not fulfil gods purpose.

Physical blocks to your union are an illusion, I’ve witnessed stubborn blocks drop away in moments because I pulled my focus away.

Depression is caused by misalignment with the core self and lower energies which you can easily rebalance.

God is love and anything that manifests, that’s not for your highest good is not of god so remove your focus from it and choose to trust again.

Don’t do anything, take a break but the one basic technique I recommend is grounding. My grounding technique is a bit different to the normal grounding techniques you hear about. Grounding on the go where you watch a movie, cook a meal, talk on the phone while just feeling into your feet.

Put your hand to your heart and speak “I surrender to my soul path“ or “my twinflame only chooses me“ or any other affirmation that realigns you with your soul. Then continue to feel into your feet while doing something that relaxes you and you will come out of that hopeless, lower state which means your perception will change.

Lots of love

Amanda

For more on how to align with your soul you can book a session with me please contact me here or you can download The Twinflame worksheet.

Questions & answers

Thank you for all those that participated in the question & answer session in my Instagram story this week. I am so sorry I couldn’t answer them all as I received nearly 400 questions. I felt all your lovely energies and I totally enjoyed it. Hopefully this will help many of you on your path to soul union.

I’ve decided to repost the questions here for those that didn’t get to see them.

Q,

Tf is in a relationship with another, a healer told me to let go of her, still see her name everywhere?

A,

Your spirit guides are asking you to realign with your twin.

Q,

I have the twinflame worksheet, how long do I use it for?

A,

All those techniques are soul alignment techniques and will benefit you even when in harmonious union. So indefinitely but you may find you’ll do them naturally without realising it when in union.

Q,

How to maintain alignment if reality is still the opposite?

A,

You need to release any thinking of the reality you are in now and pull your energy in. Ground to pull your energy in and create your union within. What happens within, happens without so work on how you feel by grounding, speaking and thinking in alignment with your soul desire.

Q,

My husband or my twin?

A,

Gods/soul path is always my answer but this decision is yours.

Q,

My twin stopped talking to me, he refused to meet up with me.

A,

That’s because you are not in your flow energy or soul aligned. When you hold separation thoughts or you are in fear energy, your twin will respond to that energy or shall we say not to respond because they don’t know how to.

Q,

What’s the fastest way to alignment with my twin?

A,

Grounding and surrender.

Q,

What would you say to spiritual seekers who say; I have three lovers, which one is TF?

A,

Let go of anyone being your twinflame and focus only on yourself.

Come into alignment with yourself and your true partner will reveal themselves.

Q,

How to align to your soul.

A,

There are many things that can align you. Alignment is when you feel free and most like yourself so anything that raises your consciousness such as following your passions, grounding, dancing, self acceptance, forgiveness, meditation, releasing lack beliefs/thoughts and practising gratitude.

Q,

Do we always get a reunion after separation if we align with love ?

A,

Being next to your twin physically is natural and a response to letting go of all resistance. If you didn’t think at all and let your soul drive you forward, you’d be next to your twin physically.

Q,

How to embody higher self and stay soul aligned?

A,

It’s no one answer but grounding, meditation and clearing up your triggers is most important.

Q,

What happens when the twinflame dies?

A,

They are still in soul union and the twin still alive will need to continue to stay balanced.

Q,

Do you know how physical union usually plays out with twins ? Does the DM make a move?

A,

There’s two ways. When in soul alignment, it’s often the female making all the moves and the other twin passionately responds with attraction on both ends but when the female shifts into receptivity ( femininity ) it opens both partners to a mutual exchange of love ( harmonious union ) this is where the male twin makes the first move.

Q,

Returning to love isn’t always simple. Any tips?

A,

Stop thinking.

Allow yourself to connect with your heart.

Q,

How to protect yourself from negative energy / keep falling sick and picking up on energy.

A,

Grounding and releasing energy out through the soles of your feet. It’s very powerful and naturally protects you.

Q,

Please help me manifest the specific person I’m in love with.

A,

I offer free information on my Instagram or you can book a session with me.

Q,

Do twinflames personalities match or are they opposite?

A,

Yes their personalities match perfectly. there’s no more perfect connection and they compliment each other with gifts as well. Any disagreements is caused by fears doubts and worries.

Q,

Is everything that happens in 5D astrally bound to happen in 3D real life?

A,

Yes definitely if you hold that vibration.

Q,

How to heal body shame ? as I feel this is also a block in my union, I don’t feel great about my body yet.

A,

You are beautiful and you just need to change your perception but there are some things you can do to make you feel lovely in your skin. Oxycise is my favourite! It’s deep breathing while stretching for 15 minutes. It makes your skin feel soft ( and sexy ) and it makes you look more radiant all over. Also actively speak love into your body, your perception will transcend.

Just so you know, your twin will think you are the sexiest being alive!

Q,

How to heal wounded feminine energy?

A,

Self-love & acceptance and heal past mother resentments.

Q,

Does the twinflame relationship always involve an age gap?

A,

No. Currently my understanding is the age gap can vary.

Q,

I found a new soulmate, but so many signs remind me of my twin, I’m torn between both.

A,

Ground and raise your vibration. Let your soul decide. You will naturally pull away from the one that’s not meant to be.

Q,

How to connect with my higher self and hear spirit guides?

A,

Grounding, MEDITATION and daily light body clearing.

Q,

My twin is a celebrity. How to connect with him in the physical?

A,

Soul alignment always leads to physical reunion. You don’t need to work out the moves, you’ll just be drawn to make them.

Q,

I have a four hour exam today, will I pass ?

A,

Feel into your feet and release all fear, your best outcome will manifest.

Q,

Do you believe more twins have incarnated to help during these times?

A,

I can’t be sure because I’ve reincarnated so many times with my twin and I know many others have done the same.

I do feel it’s very important especially right now to raise our consciousness to help the collective manifest the highest possible path for our planet at this time.

Q,

My twinflame is in a karmic situation, my heart is broken. I literally couldn’t breathe two days ago.

A,

Create your union within by soul aligning and give no thought or attention to the reality playing out in front of you.

What you shift within is what will shift outside you even if you cannot see it straight away.

Q,

Do you think twinflame can be same sex?

A,

Yes! More so than ever.

One person will hold the masculine energy and the other will be the feminine.

Q,

My twinflame with a third-party, keeps reaching out, a lot of talk but almost 0 action.

A,

Don’t give any attention (conscious energy) to the third-party. Pull your energy in and bring your energy back to you.

Raise your consciousness and allow yourself to receive love. Your twin will shift with you and match you.

Q,

If many claim a particular celebrity is their twinflame, what will happen to the real one?

A,

Absolutely no one and nothing can affect a true twinflame connection. Any interference is an illusion. Twinflames are pulled together naturally when fear is released.

Q,

In the vibration of harmonious union, do we still get triggered by a twinflame ?

A,

Fears can seep in, that’s why being conscious is important

Continue to work on self-love, alignment and triggers even in harmonious union.

Q,

What the most clear way to identify a false twinflame?

A,

They can’t grow with you.

A lower vibrational connection will drop away when you raise your consciousness but your true twin will shift with you.

Q,

Can twins ignore messages even after you apologise and get into alignment?

A,

Yes if you are blocking communication with the expectation that they won’t respond.

Q,

How can I raise my feminine energy to bring in my twin?

A,

Work on becoming receptive to love.

Q,

Should I tell my twin about our connection or should I let him find out for himself?

A,

He won’t understand/accept it unless you are in inner harmonious union but also you don’t need to tell him. Just go with the flow and do what feels natural.

Q,

Can Twinflame‘s BFF be a block between us ? I feel sometimes his BFF is not good.

A,

Nothing and no one can interfere with the twinflame connection. Let go of thinking about it, raise your vibration and all interference will dissolve.

Q,

Is there a key to really know if someone is your twinflame or are they just a lover- manifestations?

A,

Yes, meditation.

As you free yourself from thinking, you magnetise your twinflame to you and you feel the heart connection expand.

Also, with a true twinflame connection, you feel your twinflame inside you.

Q,

Can I end the twinflame journey on my own?

A,

I’ve never known any real twin flame to be able to end the connection but you can take a break and put it on hold.

Q,

What does the runner twinflame think during his/her running is phase?

A,

Confusion.

Q,

What is the best way to ground yourself?

A,

Many people have different ways but my way is just to feel into your feet.

Q,

Did our twinflame ever love anyone else other than us?

A,

Yes, like you have loved in the same way,

it ends and sometimes it’s just surface love. Twinflame love on the other hand is unconditional, divine and it never ends no matter what you go through.

For me, no one was ever good enough until I met my true match.

Q,

Can my twinflame feel it when I think of him and do I feel it when he thinks of me?

A,

Yes.

Q,

Despite knowing the truth, why are we always doubting everything. How to let go of this doubt and resistance?

A,

Because sometimes we want a confirmation with our own eyes. We’ve been conditioned to believe our physical reality is the truth when spirit is the true reality.

It takes time to trust intuition/soul/spirit.

Also doubts seep in when we are in lower vibration. Whenever you are soul aligned (love vibration) you don’t feel fear or doubt, you just know.

For more frequently asked questions check out my new twinflame audio session.

The twinflame worksheet is available to download or you can book a session.

Why the twin flame label does matter.

I’ve heard so many people say that it doesn’t matter and yes I’ve even said it myself. For me I didn’t care if my twin flame was my twin flame, all I knew was he was my long term life partner. It was my spirit guides who wanted me to know what this connection was and that is because I needed to do the energy work. At first I didn’t believe it, even though when I had my kundalini rising I saw and felt it. I still doubted it because it was not logical to me. I would not do the energy work even though I was prompted to. It was only when I got into a bad situation that I asked for help and I was directed straight to it. I took it up and I soon experienced the positive affects of the energy work.

Although this energy work raises your vibration, changes your life and even helps with any other life long destined soul partner, there are two fundamental differences between a twin flame connection and any other soul connection. These are the instant mirror affect and the connection to source. With a twin flame you are one consciousness and when you make a decision, your twin flame makes that decision with you. With the twin flame you can be with them energetically and be in love without them being physically present. With the twin flame you connect to the divine directly and we co-create at speed lightning. We also access or strengthen our spiritual gifts. The reason people get into so much trouble on the twin flame journey is because they are unaware that every thought they have or every decision they make is mirrored instantly by their twin flame.

How I made my twin flame run this weekend and why I never blame him.

When I first started to share my knowledge of the twin flame connection last year. I was in the vibration of harmonious union. My physical harmonious union was imminent. It was then that I felt the inspiration to help others. In helping hundreds of others 1 on 1, this affected my own union because I was yet to learn the importance of pulling my energy in and also respecting my boundaries. I have finally learnt this and so I can truly enjoy the work I am doing. I have crashed my union/higher vibrations many times but that’s when I would delve into the spiritual work and I would bring myself and my twin back into alignment with love, causing me to feel his love and feel good. Sometimes when I don’t do the daily energy work my vibration can go down like last week. I’ve had days and weeks like this before and that’s ok because I am only human right?. Over a year ago my twin flame started following my work and liked everything I wrote. ( I manifested this so that I would not need to explain our connection, yes he is spiritual also) Then last week he would like, then unlike, then like, then unlike my posts. This annoyed me. Because I allowed my vibration to lower I had forgotten the truth and went into my ego. I told him in my head to ‘eff off or I’ll block you’. Two hours later when I got home I found he had blocked my page. Do you see why in this connection you can not blame your other?. You have telepathy. You have an emotional and spiritual connection.

The reason he was liking and then unliking was because my vibration was going up and down due to me not doing my daily work. ( the work gets less when you are physically in union although some energy work would still need to be done) If I was in a higher vibration I would’ve looked at what he was doing with a higher perspective but instead I responded with my ego, forgetting the inner truth. So I made my twin temporarily run.

When your twin runs you can make it temporary by not telling yourself that they are running, by not focusing on their absence, by not blaming, by not complaining and by working on your shared energy. Connect with the love within. It’s not easy once you go into so called separation but it’s an illusion. When you meditate/surrender and you allow your twin inside your heart, that is when you can trust that you are also in their heart.

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